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My experiences as a frotteur (Sat 19 Jan 2002 16:21:38 GMT)
Gents,
The girl that I now love doesnt know anything of my once frotteur habits. She seems me as a sweet, romantic lovable gentlemen who wouldnt hurt a fly, In my opinion people who frotteur, do it for a number of reasons, a number of reasons seem to bring about this urge to do this kind of thing.
For me I guess
Re . Man of the year and Jmoney
Thank you Alex and Master ayashi for the award for man of the year but really the credit goes to the guys that started it I am just happy I can talk about it.
Hello JMONY. I know what you mean I'M am never 100 percent sure that I want to quit either. But I have quit different time and felt pretty good about my self.
I am alway thinking about humping and grinding a chick ass.Best thing is if you don;t have opportunities. Key is to stay away from crowds.
I had a bad running last month that good of got me jail time . I will explain later. Kyle
hey
I am still not completely sure if I wanna give this up 100%. I have tried to stop before and it is hard. I mean you can always fondle or hump at a bar and not risk of getting caught but on the subway and stuff there is a chance to get arrested.
About imagining things
What about my best friends gf, that I've posted earlier. She is always touching me? I stopped going to his house. It is shameful for me to feel horny when she touches me. She's rubbed just about every part of her body at some point or other, all "accidentally", on my feet, hands, arms. Whats going on there? I'm not imagining that. It really happened. They used to be like family, until she started doing the frotting moves on me which feel like taboo. Definitely not into friends' girls. I'm really not into it. I avoid her at all costs. I only meet him alone now.
Re: Shogun
You're right Shogun...
Whether my frottage frequency is real or not, its definitely not safe for me to continue frotting. I am not a forgettable person. When you see me once, you will remember me by my large and gregarious build. I get a lot of attention everywhere I go, even when I'm doing nothing. It could be the undercover cop was following me. Perhaps I've been on their r
Re: Max Mond - Another reason to quit
Max Mond wrote: "If women want to chikan, what can i do?"
The first thing you can do is snap to reality and stop all of your own "creative writing" about how all these women approach you to chikan. None of us believe that is happening with the frequency that you suggest, and nor should you. Like I've said before, one of the quickest ways for a chikan to get himsel
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Another reason to quit
Alex,
I got caught by undercover police. Fortunately, the woman was game and didn't say anything. But it could have gone bad. What if she didn't like and only kept silent because she was confused? What if she spoke up against me. I'd be arrested, embarrassed, and have an arrest record. That would be horrible. My future employers would know. This is an omen for all nyc chikans to quit. There is so much police at all the chikan hotspots. This is scary enough to quit while I'm ahead, like at the casino. But I have shamelessly lost all the guilt that I used to feel. If women want to chikan, what can i do?
Re.I don't feel guilty
Come on now Max mond. is it not part of denial justifying by saying women making advance to you instead you are really making advances to them, you see that is our addiction we can not stop touching womens we do the crime so if you what to talk that garbage' post it on the main board.
I don't feel guilty
I quit doing anything anymore. There is so much police around, in uniforms and plain clothes. You can smell them. I just place myself near women I find attractive, and just stay there in a good position. Its up to them if they want something. This is has been good to me, close to 75%. But I don't feel guilty as i'm not forcing myself onto anyone. Technically, I'm not doing anything, but getting stuff done on me. This is much better.
New Train
I've moved to another office in the same company. So i take a different train. This train is full of suburban MILFs. One olderish woman stood next to me with one arm clutching her small bag and another free. I felt her looking at my crotch. I knew she wanted to feel. At the next stop i got pushed away from her by the crowd coming in. After a few minutes, she moved close to me, even though no
Award
webmaster's special mention goes to Kyle for his quiting board contribution.
Re: Man of the year on the quiting board
Hello Alex. That's brilliant idea. Yes, I invite the man of the year to stop frotteurism.
Man of the year on the quiting board.
Hello ayashi. I just want to say thanks to Kyle for helping me out when I was going through hard time trying to quit groping a 11 month ago. Kyle help keep this quiting board last for a while.
I would like to nominate Kyle for the man of the year for all the good advise on the subjct on trying to quit groping if you allow sush award that would be new to the board.
Kyle if your tune in please come back. Thank you .
Alex
Re I'm losing the urge.
That a good thing, but after two years in the relationship you will have the urge again.
My thing is now is the Bar women and 24 hour donut shop gals rubbing against them while playing video games.
I'm losing the urge.
I'm dating a new girlfriend. Nothing serious so far, but I feel it may become serious. Since I started seeing her, I've been losing the urge to touch or get touched by strangers on the subway. I still do it if someone wants to touch me, but I'm not seeking it.
I want to stop
If you can have professional help, yes, I advise you ask help.
I want to stop.
For a while, I eagerly read the boards, and didn't participate in any Chikan. But this weekend, I tried my first chikan experience. I was at a concert and I grabbed ass and what not. I really want to stop but I feel a yearning towards Chikan. I've just begun and I already wanna stop. I know its wrong but I wanna know how to stop? I don't have a gf, and I'm a teenager so I think its partly lies in that, but I know there's something deeper. Has anyone really stopped and if so what did it take? Should I seek help?
Abstain in Moderation?
Abstain in moderation! lol. Thats funny. I meant when I abstained, it reduced my appetite for transit chikaan, but wans't able to stop it. Kind of like reduced calorie diet for an overeater will set his appetite. Abstainence for a few weeks is slowing me down and keeping me employed in reputable professions.
Abstinence
Aha! so, even abstinence has moderation.
Abstinence
My recent abstinence hasn't curbed my urges totally, but it has slowed me down a bit. I don't go on the prowl looking for action like I used to. I also don't look for it as much, it usually comes to me on its own now. Actually, I don't have a gf, but I have a few regular willing "chikanees." Could it be they are collectively providing female attention that I badly need and require, and somehow subsituting in a limited way, for a gf? I haven't spoken to any of them, nor do I intend to. Then it won't be fun anymore. Right now I'm enjoying this kind of semi-strange women, whose names I don't know, but whose bodies and faces I can't forget.
Games in public
Hello guys. I haven't post it on here for a while. I see there new members on here from the main board, Welcome.
I fell off the wagon a few time already since my last post.
My new style of rubbing against women's ass is a new technique I developed with women I know and women I meet.
I go to bar or dinner that have those game machine like poker solitary. I pick a machine
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You feel like Mark Twain - Max Mond
You can keep quiting many many times. And next time you may quit a little longer.
I was able to quit forever this time
Hi guys,
Like a bad addiction, I've unquit after breaking up with the same girl who I had broken up with earlier, for the same reasons. But this dry spell has helped me cut down on encounters. Whereas before I would take the train just for this, I am now going straigt to work, only taking the opportunity if it presents itself. So there is a positive change. As with all other addictive things, I am taking this one in moderation -- so far.
RE: Guest
Thank God I've quite before I was caught or humiliated. I think what happened to you is that when you were drunk, you were doing what you normally do, or were in that mode. But because you were drunk, you didn't realize the situation. A similar thing happened to someone i know. Its a little different, but it describe consequences of getting caught doing things you pretend not to do. He
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Hi,
I am the anonymous who posted below about my uncontrollable psychological urges to handle and rub up against attractive women. Basically I am a really respected guy, not at all violent, intelligent and educated, thoughtful, unconfrontational. But I do have a dark spot, that being chikan. None of my peers were aware of it at all because I did such a good job keeping it under wraps until
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