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Self sabotage
Dear all,
Somewhere I need to "talk".
I even do not believe I have to write this...
Well, somehow I made this "activity" two las times in the last 4 months.
But on both occasions I commit a strong self sabotage. I mean, the "encounters" to the girls where, from consensual to simple no-reaction from their side. But that is not the point.
In both oc
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How to quit
Uncle Bob..you want to quit? This is how I did for a 2 years without any incident...you have to know why you do it...I didn't know it at first, but I eventually discovered I was unhappy with myself and that translated into unhappiness at work, complications with girlfriends, and a lots of frotting on the subways...at one point, due to poor job performance, I decided to give it up...didn'
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Feeling good but very guilty
I broke my 2 year spell of not frotting...its partly circumstantial, but still one shouldn't blame the circumstances for losing control...the main circumstance is I really miss my girl...she has been away for almost a month and won't be back till the May or June...this is annoying the hell out of me and needless to say very frustrating...I'm going to work from home the next few days till i've cooled off....and the chikan is suppressed. Anyone have advice on how to cope and avoid temptation when you're girl is away?
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Why dont you guys find a better way to spend your lives. I wish there is a way you would discover your real potential. This whole chikan bit is killing your time and taking away from you the real pleasures that life has to offer. Dont waste your life, by the time you realize it you will have lost time you can never recover...believe me if you are 20 ...by the time this message sinks in you will be 35 and unfortunately at 20 no one warned you how precious time is ..Good luck with the reform
Fair enough?
Thanks Ayashi for responding. I kinda figured that was the angle that you were going to use :-) ...but it's somewhat justifiable.
Considering the fact that there are a certain number of females out there that welcome...and in some cases even initiate...advances from chikans by responding accordingly (gyrating with the chikan etc)I would hardly consider a chikan to be a 'soft ra
Quitting
UNCLE BOB, I avoid crowd.
SHADOW, chikan is not rape but a lot of people misunderstand that chikan is soft rape or soon to be rape. And some one misunderstands that if he shows how bad rape is, he can stop chikan.
Just browsin'
Hey guys...been a while. I hope the holiday season was good to you all. Incredibly busy as always, although I hardly come in here. After scrolling down though, I am a little alarmed to have seen a video clip from 'Irreversible' in the QUIT section, of all places. LOL. That is not the action of a chikan; that shit is a gay pimp performing outright anal rape on that girl. What's up with that being in here, Ayashi?
QUITTING
OK GUYS....it doesnt look like to much activity here,but if someone is out there how about alittle help!!!!!!!!!!!!! Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.
quitting
your post of sept.6th should be the last post on the quit board.All that other stuff that follows doesnt belong there!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL..LOL.
YOU guys crack me up!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL..LOL ...I need to go hunting today.Still working on setting up my wife,almost done.....Anyway,guys it is fun time of year for chikans in NY.Targets everywhere.Rock Center Tree,crowded malls,trains to city.
Uncle Bob
Uncle bob does not have a DICK !!!!!!!!!?????????????
I think so no wonder he calls others dick Hahahahahhahahhah
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am a Drake Derange
AWWWE... UNCLE BOB... DON'T BE THAT WAY DAWG! your such a DOLL
PROPER NAME
I doubt very much he is a doctor.As a matter of fact he probably is young enough that he still sees a peditrician...And certainly the "D" stands for DICK.....And so from here on in DR.D will be known as DICK!!!!!!!!!!!
Re.STFU
SUPER!-TERRIFIC! FANTASTIC! UNBELIEVABLE!
Thank you Tom. That was clean
What my point ?
Exactly
DR D
STFU
DR.D
So whats your point??????????????...........
Crowd used as a weapon
For you aggressive humpers. If you have your victims trapped in a crowd...no where to go..It is just like being tied up against their will. If the victim somehow had her pants down buy you or someone else, you would take advantage of the situation and start rubbing your dick around her naked ass and slide it in her anus or pussy.
Sick...Sick...Sick...
No. The video has nothing to do with our frottophilia. This is reflecting one man, Dr. D. But believing that there must be worse pervert than him is common among perverts.
Sick... (WARNING: she may be 99 years old)
This current trend toward posting violent simulated rape videos is revolting. What the hell has this got to do with the act of frottuerism/chikan??
DR.D video
50 times!!!!!!!!!! Are you freakin kidding!!!!!!!!!! After the 23 time my cock was to sore to get hard again.......
No the rape scene isn't real....
I know that movie. It's called Irreversible and the girl is Monica Bellucci. She's hot!
Dr D
Wrong place to show them.You should go to "off topic" section.Very disgusting.Is not a way to Frot.Thats rape.
rape video posted by Dirty Tom
i hope that rape video is NOT real. it's utterly violent in the end and i found it quite shocking. someone please tell me is fake or staged.
Warning!.. watching the video more then 50 time can corrupt your mind. (WARNING: she may be 21 years old)
When you watched the video did your member start to grow and feel the Adrenalin rush in your brain when the guy force the sexy lady on her knee and climb on her back side getting ready to penetrate his penis in her ass hole? and did you play it over and over again? If the answer is no...then your a liar.
Dr. D's video
This is a mainstream movie and nothing to do with frotteurism. As others said, if you are not interested, dont come to the forums and mess the experience up, seriously get a life. At least ppl here are in touch with the feminine world, and believe it or not, there are many female players out there.
If you are just fantasizing about it, get out and try play if you have the guts.
By the way, anyone liked my NEC story?
pt 2 of that french guy drilling that girl (WARNING: she may be 18 years old)
http://www.megavideo.com/?v=70B07CUR
TWO THINGS
DR.D..............You seem to pass judgement on everyone and take joy in criticizing our game....I think perhaps you should look in the mirror as no one here forces you to come to this site everyday.And it was you who posted that rape clip.What other sites do you freguent that you find that stuff....Obviously the stories here must have some redeeming value for you because you are always here.I und
Frotteurism, where can it take you?
Here a video of a Chikan who's mind is corrupt from many years of frotteurism-that lead him to violence by hanging out at the subway tunnel. He could not find a prey after hour of riding the subway back and force- out of desperation he target his prey in the tunnel and get a good hump by using force.
I think is heading that way and a few other on here.
Here the video of the sicko on the attack, lets call him shall we
http://www.megavideo.com/?v=0GOEHWIZ
re: adolescent perversion
Indeed chikan is mostly adolescent perversion. Very few bocome long lasting addiction but others stop it as they are fully developed.
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I don't want to do this anymore. I've come to learn through a number of negative experiences how destructive it can be as a habit -- not to mention the ethical qualms I have with the victimization of anyone. I'm attempting to write it off as an adolescent perversion that I've since given up; by reading this, I'm sure most of you can tell that I've wrestled with the mo
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avoid crowd
It's hard when you are tempted by pressing butts.
well this retirement is harder than I thought
I did say I was done last week but found myself on a super crowded train last friday so I had to grab some more butt. Maybe I can get the rest out of my system then fully retire after this friday. I mean this is the summer too so there are alot of free concerts around, groping may occur when these get crazy and packed.
Why does this website appear to both?
I do not encourage nor discourage the same activity. I think that encouraging it is wrong, and discouraging it cannot work. Besides, it is so ambiguous that almost everything depend consent or the lack of it.
Why does this website appear to both...
...encourage AND discourage the same activity?
Are you a practicing frotteur? Then go to the Frot forum & share stories with other like-minded pervs.
Do you think frotteurism is wrong & you oppose it? Then come to *this* forum.
But it's the *same website*! What is up with that?
Yes, you can stop. And you know that.
As you mentioned you may find the girl who can make you forget everything else.
Stopping before you begin
Stopping before you begin
For over a year I've read this forum but I've only done it twice. The only time I've been able to stop reading this forum is when a girl was in my life. A few days ago I groped this girl on the subway and it was exhilarating. I really want to do it again but at the same time Im afraid of picking up an awful habit. I also feel really bad for the girl who I touched. What can I do to quit this forum and quit in general?
Another one bites the dust
And please, check the comments!...
Another one bites the dust
Another one bites the dust
Please, translate this to the others:
http://www.eluniversal.com.mx/notas/592299.html
i want to quit
if you new to groping stop... read this, this can happen to you. i once found myself in a womens clothing store for 5 hours in a town 30 minutes away. i felt crazy, workers started noticing that i was walking around looking at people instead of clothes. i snapped out when a young pretty girl said this guys crazy to her friend, i thought to myself what have i become. so if your not addicted stop. the king
lokomen
im a mexican chikan and i want to belong to this group
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colegas deseo unirme al grupo para compartir experiencias agradecere se aen espaņol
congrats
in my last post i forgot to congratulate u for your efort max, seeing as i was rushing. am glad u understod about control before i spelt it out on the board. good going!!!
control
first and foremost i am a rational thinker, so for me to even sugest a method to kick the habit is not likly. however i think a resolve is needed but to build one u must 1st understand your obssesion. the "why" the "drive" even the "why not" and everything in between. after that it stops being a habit and becomes a choice and then fortified by a resolve. one can never truly quit a habit because its basic nature is a phscalogical repitive choice. tke cntrl of that choice.
Re: Frot free for a long time now
The great success story, Max Mond. And I love the word "Frot Free".
Frot free for a long time now
Hello all,just checking in and saying hello. I'm frot free, guilt free, and never late to work for a long time now. I avoid crowded areas, aggressive women with swinging arms, etc.
g86 - I was addicted. Like with tobacco or alcohol, addictions enslave you and you are out of control. I wanted self control back in my life, so I wanted to quit frotting. And fortunately for me, I used mar
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ok g86, so what we can do to stop this hobby?
tsk tsk
so no one can anser that q. if u dont know why then ull never quit. build a resolve first then fortify it. if u cant then ur all worthles. no one is an acidental chikan
Re.Hey Max is my hero
Blackie you didn't hear?
Max Mound said he is a fake he never actually touch womens, he like creative writing on the main board.
but what so creative about writing on the quiting board less if you really do have a problem. there go your prof he not a fake. LOL
curiosity
why do you all want to quit ???
Hey Max is my hero
Max,
I am very much inspired by your post on giving up. I see that once endorphins have been increased in the blood. Frotting becomes less from what i can see.
I am going to study kungfu as i am doing too much frotting now
Can't quit
Hello everyone, just wanted to say that I definitely have a problem and I'm not sure if I even want to quit. I'm doing my activities sometimes for many hours a day. Last summer I will honestly say I was out for like 5-8 hours a day looking to cum on girls.
For me getting out and on the hunt is the most thrilling experience I have in my life. I also need and have an urge to cum o
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Re: Martial Arts
I think when you are slimmer from before, you still have the same amount of testosterone, but less weight. So you feel it more. That adds to the enlightened happy state as well. Even if you don't lose weight, you can still benefit from exercise as more blood is flowing, carrying happy hormones faster to your cells.
Re: Martial Arts
I guess that that is similar to jugging high but also better in duration, isn't it? And sure it will work. It will work but because I will be too tired to do any addiction BEFORE I get high. :)
Martial Arts
The 300 jumping jacks, 200 pushups, 100 situps as a warmup will get rid of any addiction. Trust me, when you are done with the workout, you feel high for 2 days. Your senses are heightened. Time begins to slow down, days are longer. You begin to notice little details you never noticed before. You begin to notice the cool breeze, the dew in the morning, the bright and warm sun, the subtle fragrance
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re:when you are upset
Yes, Max Mond, alcohol and even shopping help to relieve stress. But I didn't think of martial arts!
re:when you are upset
I too have this problem. Everytime I have a bad day or too much stress, I have to have a woman near me. Since I don't have a gf again, the urge to frot is stirring. I haven't really been agressively frotting like before, but somedays, I just need it to get through the day. Like ayashi says, I think its an addiction. Like other addictions, it needs to be controlled. So, I've enrolled
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re:when you are upset
I afraid that you are very near to frottoholic. Like alcoholic and other holics, holic is not just attachment to something. Holic is a vicious circle. You drink because you are depressed and you feel depressed because you know that you are drunkard. If your "getting off on a woman" inevitably make you more depressed afterward (luckily you are not sometimes), your condition becomes worse and worse. (If so, you really need professional help before it become the worst.)
Re.when you are upset
I guess when I'm upset i look for some relief and by getting off on a women butt help me calm down but the fact is that it make me feel depress afterward and when I'M happy and getting off on a women butt then it not so bad as long as it goes smoothly and the women don't put up a fuss or get disgusted of me.
when you are upset
I guess that when you are upset, you have less self-control. Even though you do not have more urge to rub, you cannot stop it because you are mentally unstable. How do you think?
Re Ayashi
Hi Ayashi. I know for me that in the pass if i had a bad day and i get upset for what ever reason i have the urge to rub up against a women and i go out looking for a women in a crowded bus or train and it happen around rush hour and i can not figure out why i feel that way when I'm upset.
re: I found this article in the archives
That's interesting article. Though I do not agree with "low esteem" thing. We are rather high sex drive thrill seeker. And we are not violent. No wonder she finds him as a sweet, romantic lovable gentlemen who wouldn't hurt a fly.