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My experiences as a frotteur (Sat 19 Jan 2002 16:21:38 GMT)
Gents,
The girl that I now love doesnt know anything of my once frotteur habits. She seems me as a sweet, romantic lovable gentlemen who wouldnt hurt a fly, In my opinion people who frotteur, do it for a number of reasons, a number of reasons seem to bring about this urge to do this kind of thing.
For me I guess it was boredom, frustration at not having a job, security, no regular girlfriend was and still am a shy person when it came to women, I guess all these factors contributed to me wanting to rub against women, strangely enough I would do it when I as at low esteem with myself, a raving sexual urge fuelled by anger which made me do it, When I came inside a girls crack the enjoyment was over rather like switching of a light bulb, I then became even more sad and frustrated.
when someone loves you \( like when i met my girlfriend )and cares for you things changed, for me anyway this is what happened. I felt happy, life felt worth living, in fact if I had continued groping I thing I would have thrown my self of a bridge before the age of 50 because I would have hated myself so much.
Those guys who want help, I wish I could help you as I know the feeling of wanting to give it but somehow cant, god bless you all.
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