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Hi,

I am the anonymous who posted below about my uncontrollable psychological urges to handle and rub up against attractive women. Basically I am a really respected guy, not at all violent, intelligent and educated, thoughtful, unconfrontational. But I do have a dark spot, that being chikan. None of my peers were aware of it at all because I did such a good job keeping it under wraps until a few months ago: I was very drunk at an acquaintance (my good friend's friend's) apartment. I don't even remember it but I was sitting on the couch next to a girl who the apartment owner had been fooling around with. She was very nice and we had engaged in casual conversation a couple of times; she was also one of the most attractive women I've ever seen. She was wearing a beautiful dress that exposed much of her long smooth legs. I was sitting on the couch next to her and I guess my hand started to wander; I felt up her leg and eventually went under her dress and touched her butt. She quietly got up and walked away but she was very upset. I proceeded to pass out on the couch. I wasnt even informed that any of this happened until the next day when the apartment owner told me. He was clearly very upset as well. I apologized profusely and he seemed understanding and forgiving, but when I said I would apologize to her he told me not to talk to the girl I felt up again because that would cause trouble. He told me not to let it ruin my day or anything, but I was EXTREMELY humiliated and the "butt" of all jokes all day... Later on when I went home, he told our good mutual friend that he was weirded out, wanted to fight me at first (when I was asleep on the couch) and doesn't want me back in his apartment and now I'm afraid of having the reputation of some pervert, not sure if word has traveled or not.

I have found that on dance floors it is much easier and more healthy to satisfy chikan urges with strange women by just dancing and grinding on them, it is accepted on the dance floor and if she doesn't like it you just stop and find another mate. Not only that but it also leads sometimes to other encounterslike making out, sex, even a relationship if you are lucky.

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