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theory of chikaning

Based on several recent and past experiences, I'd like to propose the following theory: Many women allow chikaning as long as it doesn't get overly sexual. The reason they do so is because they like the attention and are flattered that yet another man desires them sexually. However, they themselves rarely feel aroused by this kind of limited chikaning.
On a recent flight, I was seated next to a woman in her 40s. I lifted the armrest, and gently let my hand rest against her thigh. SHe looked out of the corner of her eye, and showed some signs of discomfort, so I withdrew. A few minutes later, when I tried a second time, she seemed more relaxed, so I pressed on. After she crossed her leg away from me, I turned my palm around and cupped the lower part of her bottom. She glanced down but said nothing, in fact when I was about to withdraw she mumbled something like "no, i just wanted to look out the window" or something to indicate that I didn't have to shift position in any way. So I left the hand there. We started talking, and for the remaining 15 minutes of the flight, I was kneading the back of her thigh and her left ass cheek without a care in the world. But she would not allow me further access toward her pussy region (She was dressed in formal trousers, the fabric was soft). And she betrayed no signs of sexual arousal, not even a quickened rate of breathing. When the flight landed and she was preparing to rise from her seat, and was turned away from me, i reached behind her and palmed her upper ass for a minute or so, but she immediately showed signs of discomfort and gave me a slightly stern look. An attempt to resume conversation was met with a brisk brushoff, so I knew she didn't want to encourage me any further. But her goodbye was as nice as could be.
Then, only last night, I was a private film screening, where I found myself sitting beside a 40-ish year old woman. For nearly an hour, I kneaded her ass cheek. No problem, no hostility. In fact, she'd readjust her sitting posture every time my palm got sweaty, and then cross her leg away from me again after a few minutes to resume play. Again, she betrayed very little sign of enjoying it any more than you'd enjoy shaking somebody's hand. But when I tried to dig deeper and touch her crotch, or whenever I attempted to rub her bottom from behind, she'd get all stern and shift and look at my hand. So I'd withdraw. Yet another example of a woman enjoying a bit of physical, risk-free attention from a stranger but rejecting the sexual component of it.
I've had several experiences like this in the past, and I've always wondered "if she didn't like it, why didn't she move away" -- and "if she did like it, why didn't she let me go a little further." I think this new theory, which fits well with the differences between the emotional constitution of men and women, answers the question.
Any thoughts?

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