Re: aise hi masti - mound caress
Hi Aise
I continue to sit in wonderment (did I make that word up?) and awe at your chutzpah in connection with your mound caresses. And I envy your successes!
But please be careful! I too sometimes try to persist with my chikaning desire, in spite of obvious body language telling me to "get real". Besides being "not right", you face the embarrassment of some sort of sudden outburst, the woman suddenly slapping you with her hand or bag, or (still embarrassing, but you can live with it) she will suddenly stand up and in a huff, find a new seat with eyes ablaze (if looks could kill...!) And then you may still get reported at journey's end. While they may not catch you, they will be watching for you. So for the sake of pleasure this time, you kill potential for the many more times in the future. Don't kill the goose.
And that's probably the advice for all chikans: Choose your partners carefully. You naturally want (as Ozzi Tickler [hi!] called it) a "player" or at least someone who is passively enjoying your advances. Anyone who says "no" usually means "no". Move on. There are so many who want to say "yes". Also, you need to have some exit strategy in place in your mind in case the picture turns bad.
Finally, it is important that you make the experience as pleasant as possible for your partner. That means: dress nicely, be clean, smell good, don't make her feel that you are some sort of creep, and don't be aggressive. She on her part will be more receptive to chikan advances (if not with you this time, then with whoever next time) and comfortable in the knowledge that it is safe and nice to play if she wants. And she will be less likely to make an issue of it!
We all have a responsibilty to the next chikan (who could be you), so following these simple rules will keep the world happy.
Ozzi
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