how can you be certain?

I realize that part of the thrill in feeling up strangers is the element of danger involved. I have taken my fair share of risks over the years and have succeeded in feeling up a number of women -- young and old. My favorites are women between 32 and 50, although I must say these days I'm finding better responses from younger women -- in the late 20s.
Here's the million dollar question -- what are the signs that your target is indeed enjoying the attention? We know that many women like to be touched -- but the extent to which they are willing to go depends on a number of factors, and varies across individuals. At the same time, we know that at least an equal number of women, if not more, dislike being touched. My experience has taught me to touch certain women and not others, but during the seduction process, I can rarely be completely sure that the target is indeed enjoying it and encouraging me. Here are a number of scenarios (excluding the ones in which you get a dirty look in the first few minutes and must back off) --

1. You are touching gently and the woman's not paying any attention. You don't increase pressure but the woman begins to shift or adjust herself to change status quo -- without looking down at your hand or your face. You can't even be sure if her change in position is in order to give you better access or to subtly signal that you'd better take off your hand (or detatch yourself from bodily contact). I tend to wait and watch, and continue to touch but don't push it any further. What would you do?

2. You've moved on from gentle accidental touch to deliberate rubbing without any problem. The woman continues to look away or pay no attention. Now what? Can you increase pressure further, do more work with those deft fingers? Her breathing has gotten heavier, but maybe she's just plain scared. My concern is that I might mistake frightened freeze for silent approval. What would you do?

3. You are rubbing/grinding all right but woman wants to be in complete control. She gives quick dirty looks once in a while. She wants to play, but she wants to control the operation. And at least in one-third of such cases, she might go so far as to allow a lot of touching and then suddenly turn on you. She wasn't scared when you started, she's too brash to have kept quiet just out of politeness, and she's known exactly all along what you've been up to. She wants to play you and then screw you -- because that gives her a kick. Any reactions to that one?

There are dozens of situations that fall in between these three and dozens of other situations. How do you navigate these trecherous waters, folks?

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