Heather

Thanks for your contribution. We all like to know what the other side is actually thinking. I hope you (and other ladies) will continue to contribute. Many times we have a great time and the female shows no reaction... so we don't know how much she has enjoyed or otherwise, and what is running through her mind.
As to having sex, I agree... that would be easy... but it probably wouldn't be with the person we are frotting or humping at that moment. Quite often I get that sudden urge seeing someone cute and unbeknown to herself, beckoning. On other occasions, I just need contact with someone... and to have someone ready for sex at that moment is not practical. But there is also that element of the "unknown" and doing it right there in front of everybody - yet nobody seeing or noticing except the person your doing it to/with.
The other positive is that you don't have to make an appointment, set up a date, go through a whole courtship, make any commitments, face getting "no" for an answer or some other form of rebuttal, and the many hours involved in chatting up the person until you reach the point of consensual activity, etc.
And many of us already have partners and maybe families... and so do the humpees... No-one is necessarily ready to give all that up. This way, we achieve the magic thrill and (hopefully) mutual satisfaction, then we go back to our regular lives as lawyers, teachers, office workers, students - whatever! And the moment lives until the next better one.
For students, they have little time to spend going through a whole process for little if any gain. When thay have spare time, they are either studying or resting to gain more strength for their study commitment. Failure in just one subject can mean repeating a whole year and thousands of dollars. I believe this is why many students, especially foreign ones, are happy when this happens as it partly satisfies some of their pent-up urges, and they can then get on with their studies.
I've never assumed the woman doesn't know what's happening. After all, with a hard on poking around in sensuous places, how could she miss the point (excuse the pun)? It is her response to that rubbing and humping that gives the rush. If she does nothing, then does she like it? Or is she too frightened? How much thrill is she getting from the execise? Why doesn't she move away, assuming she can? Why doesn't she respond more positively? With the ones who do respond positively, these become memorable to me forever - to her also, I imagine.
I many cases, we would be hapy with some positive response to make the "session" more mutual and an affirmation of consent would definitely be welcome. She still has the option to take it further after the "session" if that's what she wants, or she can call it quits when it ends - which is often the case.

Maybe I am wrong. How do others feel about it? Heather. What do you think?

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